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The Debt → Payoff → Relapse Cycle Explained (And Why It’s Not Your Fault)
Paid off debt but fell back into it? You’re not irresponsible. Learn why debt relapse happens—and how to break the cycle with compassion.

Claire Ellison
Dec 123 min read
How to Start Facing Your Numbers Without Shame
Avoiding your finances doesn’t mean you’re irresponsible. Learn a gentle, shame-free way to face your numbers without spiraling.

Claire Ellison
Dec 123 min read


How Shame Shapes Your Financial Habits (And How to Break Free From It)
Shame Isn’t Just a Feeling — It’s a Pattern Shame is one of the most powerful emotions shaping how we behave with money. Unlike guilt (“I made a mistake”), shame says: “I am the mistake.” It attaches itself to identity. And when shame is involved, money stops being about math and starts being about self-worth. When people talk about: emotional spending avoidance debt cycles secrecy “knowing better but not doing better” What they’re often describing is shame quietly driving th

Claire Ellison
Dec 123 min read


Why Avoidance Feels Safer Than Awareness
Avoiding your finances doesn’t mean you’re irresponsible. Learn why avoidance feels safer—and how to gently move toward awareness.

Claire Ellison
Dec 123 min read
Emotional Spending Isn't Weakness - It's a Survival Skill
Emotional spending isn’t a lack of discipline—it’s a learned coping mechanism. Discover why it happens and how to change it with compassion.

Claire Ellison
Dec 124 min read


My Financial Fresh Start: The Real Story Behind This Project
Claire shares the real story behind The Financial Fresh Start—emotional spending, debt cycles, and a shame-free path to healing your money habits.

Claire Ellison
Dec 124 min read
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